Gay dating second date

05-Jul-2014 23:34 by 3 Comments

Gay dating second date

Don’t rule someone out just because you’re both bottoms, for example; nothing is set in stone.

While the common dating ‘rules’ – not that I believe in rules – can apply to anybody, there are perhaps a few things we, as gay guys, need to pay a little more attention to.

It’s time to think outside the box, look past the beards or muscles, and take chances.

Be positive Many guys are very clear in their dating profiles – almost rudely so – about what they don’t want or like.

You’re saying, “You tick a box, you’ll do” like they’re not a person, but a means to satisfy your kink.

While you’re checking your racism, think about the way you talk to other guys who aren’t just like you.

Slurring your words is so not a sexy look, and it might be a good idea to switch that fifth pint to a glass of water. Talk about ex boyfriends Those first couple of dates after you have recently broken up with someone can be really tough.

It is a great idea to put your best food forward and get out there and meet some new guys – because they’re not all jerks, promise.

All this liberation and equality is leading to increased bigotry among us.

If you’re white, don’t say you’re “really into black guys”. You’re objectifying a person with no thought for what else he might have to offer.

You might feel scared that you are out of his league and feel that you need to over compensate with exaggerations about your life.

But if you want a first date to lead onto a second date and then a third, it is imperative that you are honest right from the outset.

Whether we’re into bears, jocks or geeks, sometimes our narrow search criteria holds us back.